Guidelines: What to Avoid When Making Gifts for Cancer Patients

When creating thoughtful gifts like inspiring cards, decorated journals, painted rocks, or support stickers for cancer patients, it's important to be mindful of what we include.

Especially as a cancer survivor myself, I know how much it means to receive something made with thought and care. Especially if you are leading a group service project, please consider printing/sharing these guidelines to ensure quality work!

These small gestures can bring comfort and joy, but certain elements can unintentionally cause discomfort. To ensure your creations uplift and encourage, here are some helpful guidelines on what to avoid:

1. DON’T include negative or insensitive comments
   Avoid references to illness, death, or treatments that may be upsetting. Refrain from using phrases like "get well soon" or "wishing you a quick recovery," as some cancer patients may be facing long-term challenges.
2. DON’T use offensive or inappropriate language or imagery
   Stay clear of any language, images, or symbols that could be considered vulgar, controversial, or offensive.
3. DON’T focus on illness or hardship
   Emphasizing the diagnosis can bring unnecessary attention to their situation. Focus on uplifting and positive messages.
4. DON’T include religious content
   Religion can be a deeply personal matter, so it’s best to avoid religious messages as we do not know the recipients’ religious or spiritual beliefs.
5. DON’T assume familiarity or make overly personal statements
   Avoid statements that assume you know the recipient’s emotions or experience unless you're personally close.
6. DON’T use certain humor that may be misunderstood
   Some types of humor, especially sarcasm or jokes related to illness, might be misinterpreted or hurtful. Puns are always welcome :)
7. DON’T add any violent or aggressive imagery
   Avoid anything that could be linked to aggression, conflict, or struggle, which can trigger stress.
8. DON’T include glitter, confetti, or other messy elements
   These can create unnecessary cleanup, especially for patients with weakened immune systems or those in sterile environments.

This list ensures that the creations are sensitive, encouraging, and appropriate for cancer patients. Thanks for your support and understanding!

For ideas on what you may include:

1. DO use positive and encouraging messages
   Uplifting words like "You're amazing," "Keep going," "You’ve got this," "One day at a time," "Stay strong," or "Sending love and strength" can bring comfort and inspire hope.
2. DO keep designs (gender and age) neutral yet cheerful
   Since you don’t know the recipient personally, opt for universally positive themes like nature, sunshine, or abstract patterns.
3. DO focus on hope and strength
   Messages that celebrate resilience, courage, and hope can provide emotional support without being overly personal.
4. DO include nature or calming imagery
   Designs featuring flowers, trees, or gentle landscapes can evoke peace and serenity for anyone.
5. DO show care and attention to detail, including using high-quality materials 
   We pride ourselves in providing well-made gifts and hope that volunteers understand that it’s not just about the service hours or awards. Your careful work matters. Whenever possible, please consider using cardstock for letters, origami paper for origami, soft towels for care bear towels, etc. 
6. DO write with authenticity and sincerity
   Focus on being genuine and offering heartfelt, positive messages. Your sincerity will be appreciated by the recipient.

Now you're ready to volunteer with Kits to Heart!